Saturday, June 20, 2009

Such sad words I never wanted to say...

Many of you know and have been praying for my SIL and her precious baby girl as she was having complications with her pregnancy...Well Wednesday she had gone in for another sonogram and they said her fluid levels were up which was good, not great like they wanted but good and her H&H level had stayed up so they were happy with that. Well Thursday morning she had some problems and some pain in her side so she immediately called the Dr and they sent her to the hospital for another sonogram and blood test. So she went and did these things and they determined that her cervix was a bit dilated and that the pain was contractions, but her sonogram was the same as the day before and her H&H level was good so they decided to just keep her for observation overnight and to try and get the labor to stop.

Well I am deeply saddened to tell you that I got a text this afternoon (which was actually sent this morning but it came through late) but the text said that they had lost the baby this morning and they were expecting delivery within the next 8 hours...And she would call me later, well I never did talk to her...I was tempted to call her so many times but I just knew if she wanted to talk she would call me, and I want to give her the space she needs to absorb all of this...I do not know what happened other than my FIL in a brief conversation with my Hubby said that the baby's heart stopped and that she still had not delivered the baby, they were waiting for that to happen...So that is what I knew as of 3:30 Friday afternoon and I know nothing else...

My heart breaks for her and she is in my prayers profusely and I love her very much...



14 comments:

  1. Oh Michelle..
    I am so very sorry to hear this. I just can not imagine the saddness your SIL must be feeling. I am going to pray for your whole family this weekend. I just wanted you to know I care and I am so sorry.
    Hugs my friend.
    Amy

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  2. I am so sorry to hear you sad news. I will for sure pray for your SIL and for your family. Take care.

    ~Tania~

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  3. Hi Michelle,
    So sorry to hear about you SIL. I will pray that God's peace, comfort and strength will find you and your family during this hard time.

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  4. I am so sorry Michelle. Yesterday was my sister's nephews funeral. He was only 22, and took his own life. There was so much sorrow and pain for everyone. It broke my heart. I am so sad for you and your friends. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs.

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  5. wow so sad... my heart hurts.. blessings and prayers for all of you
    hugs
    gp and the herd

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  6. So very sorry for your family's loss.

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  7. I am so sorry to hear you SIL lost her baby! How terribly sad!! Her family and yours will be in my thoughts and prayers!!

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  8. What a tough thing to go through! Warm thoughts for you and your family today....

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  9. I am so very sorry for your family's loss.

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  10. Thank you all for your warm thoughts and prayers. I did talk to my SIL today and she of course is very distraught and is not ready to talk about the deep feelings of saddness that she is feeling. She did want me to pass along a thank you to everyone who has thought and prayed for their family...Now she needs tons and tons of prayers for healing..

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  11. oh My God, I dont know how I miss this--I am so sorry. How devastating.

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  12. Thank you Paige, I got to see her today and she looked well. I know her heart doesn't feel well but she put on a strong face for her family so they could have a wonderful Father's Day..She's just a wonderful person..

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  13. Oh, Girl - I've got to get on the blog more. I am so sorry. Please give her a hug from me . . .

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  14. BY~ I most definitely will give her a hug from you, thanks..

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